When someone makes you think they’re about to tell you some juicy gossip
When you say something bad about your self and your friends agree

Différente. Don't forget what we did.♊.
As a rule of thumb
Don’t assume you mean anything special to a person if they don’t show you and very confirm that’s how they feel. Don’t put on your detective hat and try to figure out if x means y and that leads to z. Because if a person cares for you, they will make it known. And you deserve a person that makes it known how much you mean to them